Mickey Walker

Going Home Again: How Poor Can Make You Rich

By Mickey Walker - March 15, 2009

The dire recent sales numbers from Ford, GM, and Chrysler approaching 50% made me spill my coffee.  I had to withdraw in my mind to think about it all.  So, in involuntary silence I drifted back to a simpler time trying to make sense out of what remained of the world as now I perceived it to be in March of 2009.  Back when I was a lad in the 1940s and 1950s my mother made all my shirts.  Her bony bare foot pedaled her antique Singer sewing machine to produce for me the most glorious creations from the latest styles from Italy, France, and even New York City.  The store-bought shirts, Macgregor’s and such, in a fancy men’s shop would cost over $10, and, in short, we could not afford such extravagance. So Mom studied the cuts of the fine shirts from the dusty sidewalk outside, looking through the store glass.  Back at home, she duplicated these fine shirts for me on her foot-driven sewing machine.  Mom was an artist with passion and love in her eye.

 I remember wishing for a pair of expensive penny loafers in my early Junior High days in Port Arthur, Texas.  But alas, I could only get the synthetic pair of painted beige penny loafers with white foam soles that turned yellow with the walking. They were awful. That was before the splendid imitations of today, and everybody knew and snickered knowingly that I was just another one of the poor kids.  Embarrassed, I tried to hide my shoes under my desk so no one would see.  Jeff Hayes, a buddy in my band class, got a pair of expensive penny loafers I would have killed to have, and he paraded around in them all day, and I envied him, so I told Mom how desperately I wanted some shoes like his, and she took me downtown on Proctor Street and bought me a pair of ox blood penny loafers made by Jarmen.  I knew what with a new baby brother,  Mom did not have the money, but she took a chance on making me happy by doing without and perhaps seeking the greater good of making a young boy happy.  Mom splurged and bought me a new pair of Levis, too, and paid no mind to the clerk who sighed deeply at the likes of us invading his fancy store, but we didn’t care because we were on a mission of improving my image and my social status which was something of higher importance to me and the universe.  See, you had to have the new jeans with a Navy blue hue because faded jeans weren’t cool back then.  The more faded they were told on you.  Only poor kids kept on wearing the faded ones that branded them as less fortunate creatures on the social pyramid.  The next morning I appeared with my new jeans and shoes, feeling good about my world, and all the boys and girls noticed my new look and smiled approvingly as if to certify that I had arrived and was more acceptable as a human being, perhaps, more than before.  I glowed.

As a boy my Dad used to tell me stories about the dignity of man and how unions preserved that dignity through bargaining with companies for higher wages and better working conditions.  That was when Dad worked for Gulf Oil Corporation at the Port Arthur, Texas Refinery.  It was then, too, that he taught me about money.  He gave me a dollar a week to spend and a dollar to save at the Gulf Credit Union downtown by the Post Office.  Every Saturday I rode downtown with him to give the teller my dollar to save, and she would write it down in my little book.

The days of March this year have been delightfully bright yet crisp in my little patch of woods of Humble, Texas that border larger clearings and streets and masses of humanity and far fewer animals than where I live.  Today I sat on my covered deck, almost dreaming, feeling cocoon-like, yes, a bit protected from what has happened to America and our way of living high with no money down and so much a month.  It was a far cry from the world of when I was a boy before credit cards and President Bush who would lie about weapons of mass destruction and spend us into the bowels of the earth to where our National Debt is now over 15 trillion dollars.  I tried to understand just what might be valuable at this point and what is not.  And what is left for us Americans who are trying to pick up the pieces in the aftermath of the last 8 years.  I live at the end of an alley in a house of 1940s vintage that I have enjoyed fixing up, landscaping and enhancing for the last few decades.  It is private and at the dead end of a long gravel road that passes another house I own (vacant) on the main street.  There are hawks and doves and rabbits and squirrels all around, and huge Live Oaks sprawl in my front yard and privately, I see no neighbors because “the woods are lovely, dark and deep.”  Only the mailman and an occasional visitor ever ventures down my path.

Feeling a bit like Thoreau when I moved in, I paid only $20,000 for a small structure of 750 square feet that I have grown to over 2,000 square feet with out-buildings.  The neighborhood is old and gives some of my friends the impression that there be burglars down here and other felons to put me in peril, but in the 20 years I have lived here, nothing has been stolen from our house or from anybody in the neighborhood that I know of.  I guess the crooks hit the fancier additions and subdivisions thinking that they have money and us poor urchins in old Humble are pretty hard up.

Lately, that’s been proving to be untrue for many of the fine, big houses have gone vacant from the economy even here near Houston where jobs and wages still seem to lead the country because of oil.

When I moved here from our fancy house near Lake Houston, my daughter almost cried.  “Dad, are we really that poor?”  she asked.  I chuckled and reassured her that I could live in a big house if I ever wanted to, but for now, I sought economy and things of the spirit and of the wooded natural things all around me in my new modest abode.  And it was nice to be able to pay cash.  The tradeoff was that I had to live in a less than exemplary neighborhood where some of the older houses sagged while others were being “fixed up” as I was doing.  But such a neighborhood is always a work in progress.

I want to make a statement. 

Valuable things in our lives come not from the house where we live nor the LG washers and dryers, the granite counters, nor the fine motorcars in our garage. The things of value come from the heart.  You can’t get a second mortgage on that stuff.  We know these truths, and we knew them better as kids, but they still stand solid.  I think maybe we just lost track in pursuit of the expensive penny loafers before we had the money to buy them.

Everybody just wants to get on in this life.  We want to raise our kids and have them healthy, but protected with programs like SCHIPS in case catastrophe comes to our door.  We want the best for our families, too, of origin and of late.  Bottom line we don’t want to hurt our neighbors or be hurt by careless or misguided humans who we thought to be pulling with us for the common good.  The pocketbook difference between Democrats and Republicans is the most deplorable consideration since Jesus and Bhudda told us not to sweat the money, not to worry about our storage bins for the accumulation of goods in our houses and compounds.   We want and need fair wages for our children, our nephews, and we need to be able to pursue happiness without being thwarted by governments, wars, or other such societal monsters.  We need good wages, not good wars.

Jack Elton, an old friend since DeQueen Elementary School in Port Arthur has three fine daughters, Marilyn, Vickie, and Debbie.  When they were growing up they needed formal gowns for their school proms, and their old Pappy Jack (as they call him) got a foot-pedaled Singer sewing machine and made them their senior prom gowns. The store-bought ones were too expensive.  When I first heard this story and how proud his girls were of him, a tear came to remind me of the overwhelming rush of love of the people who will make do to improvise to get loved ones the things in life that are important, the things that bring smiles and hugs to the eye of the maker of good things.

I think Barack Obama is a maker of good things, and I think he values all Americans regardless of their bank accounts.  He recently put his money where his mouth is on tax breaks for those making under $250,000 a year and raising taxes for those making more.  His promise of millions of new green energy jobs for Americans gives us hope.  I hope we are on the right road.  I must condition myself to believe that Obama is the right man for the job.  And I believe, if needed, Obama would make formals for his own daughters with a foot-pedaled Singer sewing machine if he needed to.   TPJmagazine

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